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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Like gay porn; am I gay?
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I am definitely straight but occasionally I watch gay porn. Sometimes I even get turned on by it. I would never do anything with another guy in real life. But does this make me gay because I get turned on by it?
Posted:9/19/2007
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Mike , Hunt, NJ, United States
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Definitely Straight?
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I think the idea of calling oneself definitely straight is a little above yourself.

There is a scale that ranks the level of ones sexual orientation. I believe it is 0-6 with 0 being completely hetero and 6 being completely homosexual. I forget the exact number, but I thought that most people fall into the 2 range. I may be wrong about the number, but that be like saying most people are bisexual leaning toward hetero.

No you are not gay, but you definitely aren't 100% hetero, either

Posted:7/2/2008
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Jared W., Robesonia, PA, United States , 26 , Male , Atheist , White/Caucasian , Straight , Cook , High School Diploma , Middle class
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Gay/Straight is a continuum
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Nobody, or at least very very few people, are actually completely gay or completely straight. Everyone is somewhere in between. You may be really attracted to girls and only a little attracted to guys. Don't listen to people who try to shove you into one category or another. Most people that are violently completely straight are just trying to cover up for having homosexual tendencies. The people I know who are the closest to completely straight are comfortable in their sexuality and don't need to go around proving it all the time.

Posted:5/3/2008
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Daniel Pfalmer, Fairbanks, AK, United States , 22 , Male , Agnostic , White/Caucasian , Straight , Student , Over 4 Years of College , Lower middle class
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: sorry - you're gay!
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sorry buddy, you're gay. Do not worry, you are not alone. This is how my friend and I "came out" - we started talking about girls' g-units at lunch in high school, then realizing that they turned us on. It doesn't feel different to be gay or lesbian, it is just the way you are. Have fun.

Posted:2/7/2008
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Mrs. T, Philadelphia, PA, United States , female , lesbian
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Yep, you're gay
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Yes it makes you gay. A man who enjoys watching two men have sex is a homosexual...hands down...if women interests you and you consider yourself to be a heterosexual why aren't you watching lesbian sex?

Posted:12/29/2007
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Lyrick Bivins, Washington, DC, United States , 20 , Female , Black/African American , 2 Years of College
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Here's the thing....
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If guys didn't enjoy watching other guys get off, straight porn would only have women in it.

Posted:5/5/2013
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thing is, Buenos Aires, NA, Argentina , n/a , n/a , Straight , Middle class, n/a
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: "Gay" is sexual orientation. Who you are
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What type of porn you watch is about preference. Sexual orientation is not.

Posted:3/2/2011
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Ernie H, Warner Robins, GA, United States , 35 , Female , Christian , Black/African American , personal trainer , Over 4 Years of College , Upper middle class
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Sex is sex
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I don't believe there should be any terms or labels put on anyone. I consider myself 'gay'. But I have slept with girls a few times. Bi I feel just takes whatever one can get. Sex is just sex. A tight hole is a tight hole. In the end, who cares? If you can find someone to be with for your whole life, and love deeply, isn't that what matters? Who cares what turns you on as long as that person does. Some people like piss and shit porn, what does that make them? In the end WHO CARES! go experiment and enjoy yourself. All that matters is your own happiness, not others' views.

Posted:8/17/2010
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Kerry W, Mineola, NY, United States , who cares , White/Caucasian , Does it really matter? , Upper middle class, who cares
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: try it
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just go try it, ask a gay person you know if they are willing to let you try
Posted:12/4/2008
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Gregory Newman, Mahtomedi, MN, United States , 17 , Male , Conflicted , White/Caucasian , Gay , Upper middle class, asberger's syndrome
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Like Gay Pron. . .!
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I dont think it makes you gay but i do believe that it makes you curious. Meaning that you are curious if you get turned on by it. But really no real straight man would even think about watching gay porn.

Posted:11/5/2008
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kevin lee, Murray, KY, United States , 20 , Male , Black/African American , Gay , Student
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Does this make you gay?
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No, of course it doesn't make you gay. You are gay if you have or want to have sex with men. You enjoy the fantasy of watching 2 guys get it on. So what? I'm a lesbian and I know a lot of lesbians who also get turned on by boy on boy action. Does that make us gay men?? Does that make us heterosexual? LOL.

Human sexuality is marvelously diverse. Enjoy your movies. Enjoy your wife/girlfriend. Enjoy life. Honor all beings. You'll be fine.


Posted:4/5/2008
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Marianne I, Portland, OR, United States , 54 , Female , Jewish , White/Caucasian , Lesbian , Stage Manager , Over 4 Years of College , Middle class
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Category: Sexual Orientation
Subject: Re: Like gay porn; am I gay?
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Maybe you're gay, maybe you're just a straight guy who likes gay porn. Maybe you're bi, or maybe there's just not a label that applies in your situation.

Sexuality is a lot more flexible than most of us imagine; I've met straight guys who like to get blown by guys but they're still 100% straight.

With labels like "straight" and "gay" it probably matters more what you like to call yourself--how you identify--than who you like to sleep with.

Posted:1/9/2008
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Gordon R, Salt Lake City, UT, United States
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