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I'll give you my thoughts as a lesbian. Most lesbians become aware of feelings towards women friends (or girlfriends if they become aware earlier in life). Longing, desire,the feeling of falling in love with other women often comes before sexual desire. If you have no desire to "be" with a woman in a romantic way (holding hands, falling in love, setting up house, getting married) and you do have such desires towards men, you're probably not a lesbian, as such.

That said, apparently lots of women have sexual feelings for other women at some point in their lives. The label is rather unimportant. Live your life. Love whomever you will. Be free.

Marianne I, Portland, OR, United States , Female
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